Am i gay or bi
Am I bi, homosexual, pansexual, or something else?
Dear Reader,
It’s true that community tends to lay people in boxes with simple labels, especially as they pertain to sexuality, and you’re certainly not the only one who finds this frustrating. Individuality can be complex, and one-word labels, whether they depict sexual orientation or another identity category, often don’t adequately capture every facet of an individual’s experiences. Often people feel that unique labels can only offer a short summary of the thoughts, feelings, and experiences that build up their reality. What can be important to keep in mind is it’s okay to exchange labels as you watch fit, it’s also okay not to use them at all. Ultimately, the way you characterize your sexual orientation is a choice for you to make based on what you sense comfortable with at a given show in your existence. That being said, you might contemplate “unlabeled” or “pomosexual” as terms that could describe how you’re feeling at the moment (more on this later).
While labels can be limiting for some, they can also be useful and even liberating for others. Being proficient to describe yourself with a synonyms or term that’s shared with others can help y
Re: Am I bi or gay or straight... just confused
Unread postby thewrit3r »
Hi,
Before I delve in any further, I just want to initiate off by saying that sexuality is really personal. That doesn't mean you can't get tip for others on how you undergo especially if they've been in similar situations, but ultimately it will be up to you to decide what your sexuality is and what it means to you. I know it can be nerve wrecking to experience like you don't know where you fit in, but a lot of people don't realize, either. Sexuality can be fluid for so many people, and part of the fun in it can be to figure out how you sense as you own new experiences. Not knowing exactly what your sexuality is doesn't mean you don't know yourself; it's simply appreciate any other aspect of you that you've taken the time to investigate. For example, when I was younger I didn't believe about dance until I tried it, and then I found out I liked it. It wasn't that I didn't know myself, but I simply had never experienced dance before to know that I would enjoy it. Does that form sense?
Anyway, moving on to your question after my long winded intro: From what you wrote, it sounds like you're interested in men. And from
Am I Bisexual, Straight Or Gay? Quiz
About This Quiz
Wondering about your sexual orientation? Our "Am I Straight? Quiz helps you gain more clarity about your romantic and sexual preferences. This fun, non-judgmental quiz guides you through various questions that will provide insights into if you're attracted to one gender or more.
It's perfectly normal to question your feelings and explore your orientation. If you’re curious about your sexuality, taking this quiz is a great way to reflect. If you're thinking about the possibility that you might be queer or straight, this quiz is here to help. Plus, if you’re questioning your sexuality further, you can take the "gay test" to help understand more about your preferences.
Disclaimer: This quiz is created purely for entertainment purposes and is not intended to stereotype, marginalize, or pass judgment on any individual or group based on their cultural background, ethnicity, or preferences. The questions and results are lighthearted and do not clutch any scientific or sociological validity.
Frequently Asked Questions
Unfortunately, no one can answer this interrogate except for you. Bisexuality is defined as “a person who can be emotionally, romantically or sexually attracted to more than one sex, gender or gender identity.”
We recommend examining the type of attractions you’ve had over the course of your existence. If you see a pattern of being attracted to more than one gender, you are probably bi+ (an umbrella legal title for people who are bisexual, pansexual, fluid, gay or any other designation for folks who are attracted to more than one gender).
You do not have to have had sexual experiences with specific genders to identify as bi+. Sexual orientation is rooted in attraction, not behavior. For example, heterosexuals who have never had sexual experiences are still considered heterosexual. Same is true for bi+ people who have never had sexual experiences with members of the same gender or different genders. Your identity is valid regardless of your past or current dating history.
Some bi+ people have a choice for certain genders. Some don’t. All are valid. If you have a teaspoon of bisexual attraction, you are bi+.
For some bi+ people, preferences/attractions